It’s a pleasure to meet you. And to finally get a chance to post this interview. It’s been a long time coming. Let’s get right to it: How long have you been spanking professionally?
I have been spanking professionally for nearly 13 years. I started traveling to different cities for sessions about 10 years ago and have clients in cities all over the US.
I typically do my sessions in a hotel suite when traveling. I occasionally see clients in their own home if they are someone I have seen before.
How did you get into it?
I have been fascinated with spanking since I was very young. I have been a spanko my whole life. I started out on the receiving end, as it had never occurred to me to give. I decided to try giving and loved it right away.
It was just a “fun” thing?
At one point I was spanking several different men and, within a few weeks, 3 separate people suggested I do this professionally. I had never considered it before that time. But then I looked into it, thought about it, and decided to do it. The rest, as they say, is history.
Are you camera shy?
I don’t post pictures of myself, it is a rule I made from when I started doing this professionally. As you know, once something is out on the internet, it is there forever. I choose to keep my private life private, and my clients understand and support this.
Well you sent us a few. Much appreciated. Can you describe yourself?
I am 5’4″, about 160 lbs, with medium length dark hair, hazel eyes and fair skin and have been described as voluptuous.
On your site, http://www.elizabethburnsdd.com/ you have great descriptions for your role-play scenario’s, do you have a favorite to play?
I actually have two websites, http://www.elizabethburns.com/ gives details about me and the types of sessions I do, has pictures of some of my implements, role play scenarios and has my travel schedule. The other website, http://www.elizabethburnsdd.com/ has some information about domestic discipline as well as some spanking audio clips that I have done. Both sites have some info about phone sessions that I offer.
Great info. And the role play?
As far as a favorite scene to play, I really don’t have just one. All of them can be great fun with someone who can get into a role. I have had great experiences with all the ones listed on my site, and basically anything else someone can think up that fits in a similar type of feel. I really love to talk with someone about their ideas for a role play and then, together, work out the details of the scene. It makes each role play unique and ensures that what interests both of us is meshed together to make something that will be fun for all.
I am a bit partial to the neighbor boy and teacher scenes you describe…just saying…do others open up about their fantasies as easily?
I send out a questionnaire to anyone who wants to have a session. I have them tell me a bit about what is on their mind, what kind of scenes or specifics about a scene are interesting to them. Sometimes I get back a few sentences, sometimes a novel, and most often somewhere in between. Once someone sees how much I am into it and that their ideas will be embraced and are not going to be put down or mocked, most people are willing to open up quite a bit. It is very important to me that anyone who contacts me feels comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.
Do you feel like you are part psychologist (or bartender) in a way?
It really depends on the person and situation. Sometimes someone who sees me just wants a role play, as spanking is just something interesting to them or that has been a part of them and they simply enjoy getting lost in the scene. However, there are other times where they are unsure about why they like this or what exactly they may like, and the ability to talk with them about their interest and delve into where it might have come from and how to best meet their needs can make me feel like that. Honestly, that is one of the things I really enjoy, helping someone to understand themselves more, accept their interest and find ways to add it to their lives in a positive manner.
I do think it is very important for me to listen and learn and be supportive. As someone with a background in education and psychology, I love that I can use those skills and passion with my clients. I love to learn and grow, and I am lucky to get to do that on a regular basis.
You say you provide the best spanking experience available, what is that and how do you achieve it?
There is not one best spanking experience, it is very individual, and even with each person, it might be different depending on the day! What I do is find out as much as I can about someone, what their specific interests are, what makes them tick, why they like certain things, etc. I take all that information and combine it with my knowledge and experience and try to craft a great experience for each person. Sometimes a person may not know exactly what they like/want, so I might try a few different things and see how they react. I can then make changes/adjustments during the session to try to make it more memorable.
Do you have safe words? Or how do you know how hard to spank or when it should end?
I don’t really use a safe word unless someone really wants one, which most don’t. While there are some situations where I think that is essential, in a spanking session with a professional who is geared toward finding out what they need and meeting those needs, I don’t think there is the same risk as other situations. The hard part about safe words is that typically in a spanking situation, a big part of it is not being in control, having to take the spanking, and having a safe word can hinder this.
I do, however, have some things I let them know to do to give me feedback on how they are doing, in case I can’t read them to know when they have had enough. I am typically very good at reading body language and sensing how someone is doing and how much more they need. I am often told that I went to just the perfect point and stopped just when they thought they couldn’t take anymore.
I really want to understand someone and give them just what they need/want. It isn’t about giving them the hardest spanking ever.
So we get the best spanking ever, what do you get out of the experience?
I love to spank. I enjoy helping someone get the kind of spanking that they seek. Everyone has something they are looking for in a spanking. Some want a role play session, others real discipline, and still others want to receive their first spanking ever. I work hard to find out exactly what someone is looking for, and use my skills to create that experience for them.
Do you see many women or couples?
The majority of the people I see are men. I do, however have many female clients whom I have seen in the past or on an ongoing basis now. I have worked with couples and very much enjoy this. When it comes to couples, one thing I really enjoy is teaching/coaching a woman who may find this interesting but doesn’t really have the skill or confidence on her own to take charge of the man she is with. I find it is a great experience for the guy who has always wanted his significant other to spank him and also understand his interest a bit. He knows she will be getting good information and guidance and he also gets the added benefit of being spanked by two women, something most guys dream about.
Is there a difference in tolerance or reaction from women compared to men?
I think there is really a difference in tolerance and reaction from one person to the next, and being male or female doesn’t change that. Many of the women I spank have a very high tolerance, even higher than a lot of the men I see. I also have women who have lower tolerances than some of the men I see. I certainly have never seen any evidence of women being the “weaker sex” while I have been spanking them!
You love to find household items to spank with, besides in the kitchen, what have you found to be an effective implement laying around a house?
I might be a bit of an implement snob, since I have so many great options to choose from. I tend to find that a lot of the found items pale in comparison to ones I have purchased which were made for spanking. There are exceptions, of course. I have found a few from the kitchen which are great, of course. Also, a sturdy wooden backed hairbrush, bathbrush or clothes brush is always a staple for me. I have found a few leather belts over the years that I really like and that can be quite effective.
Okay, now tell me about the ones in the kitchen that make it into your goodie bag?
I love this over sized rubber spatula that I have, it is very effective and works especially well when the skin is wet. I have a rice paddle, which is really made to scoop rice, but it is industrial size, so covers a larger area. I also have a collection of wooden spoons, plastic spatulas and other various wood cooking implements.
Do you have a favorite implement?
That is a tough one, honestly. I guess I really don’t have a favorite, but several favorites. One of my favorites is the Vermont country store bathbrush. I have several small paddles I really like, a few straps and of course a cane. I think it really depends on the person I am spanking, their tolerance level, if they are looking for more sting or thud, as well as the scene and, honestly, their build. Each implement works a bit different on different builds, so I take all of that into account when choosing what I will use, to get just the effect that we both desire.
How about position?
Well, otk is really a staple, in my mind. It is, by far, the favorite of people I spank. I also do like to have someone laying over pillows on the bed for a good dose of the strap. Once again, there are so many different positions that can be effective for different reasons. Depending on the scene, the feelings/mindset of the spankee and sometimes just the angle that I want to connect with their bottom, I will choose various positions that will get the job done!
What do your friends and family thing of your job?
For the most part they are happy that I get to do something I love, and actually several people have told me how jealous they are of that fact. I am pretty selective as to who I share the information with about my job, as many would never understand it. I would never want to put someone in an uncomfortable position (well, unless they wanted that!) and so I tend to be very discreet about what I do.
Have any of them made it over your lap?
I have friends whom I have met who are also into spanking, and yes, some of those have been over my lap. I have not had any vanilla friends over my lap, why would I?
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Thanks for taking the time to chat with us. Did I miss anything?
I think that covers the basics.