I’ve read about spanking therapists. Is this a real thing? Do you think you can help people with the use of corporal punishment? Wouldn’t the people that seek out this treatment probably like being spanked? Where’s the deterrent?
In a real sense, spanking can be very therapeutic for a lot of people. They release tension, get the cobwebs out and clear their mind, and feel newly refreshed after a good bare bottom tanning! But I’m guessing that by “spanking therapy” you mean something similar to my Spanking Life Coaching Program. And, yes, this IS quite effective for many, many people. Some of them are not even spankos! They just have tried everything else to motivate themselves and they still can’t get up off their asses and get stuff done. For them, spanking is a BIG deterrent, because they never wanted one in the first place.
Most of my Spanking Life Coaching clients are spankos. And the spankings are definitely a deterrent for them also. The first consult I do with everyone has a spanking portion at the end. The purpose of this, since they have not yet had a chance to do anything wrong, is for me to calibrate their spanking tolerance so that I can figure out the difference between the kind of spanking they seek out when they want a recreational session, and the kind of spanking that affects them as real punishment. Believe me, they do NOT want the kind of spanking they will get if they don’t get their “homework” done! I have seen great success with this “spanking therapy”. People have lost weight and gotten in shape, prepared to defend their doctoral dissertation, one man restructured and updated his office procedures and technology during the course of our work together. It’s just a matter of figuring out how to make the people more scared of me than they are of their long-procrastinated problems.
Settle a bet. Does a true spanking have to be done on the bare behind?
There is really no such thing as the definitive “true” spanking. I would say that any kind of spanking that hurts the Spankee is a true spanking. Some people are writhing in pain when being spanked over their trousers. And then, of course, you could always take the hairbrush to a Spankee over his/her jeans and they could absolutely be left with a red sore behind. Moreover, there are Spankees I know that can receive the heaviest paddles, straps, canes, and what-have-you and leave without even the slightest trace of red. Traditionally, however, it is considered de rigueur to peel a naughty boy or girl’s clothing down layer by layer in a spanking by starting over the trousers, then pulling them down and spanking over the underwear, and finally exposing the bare cheeks, eliciting the greatest dread for one’s intended “victim”. Perhaps this is what your betting compadre meant by a “true” spanking. But it’s all relative. Personally, I think all of the above is very real and true, but I never feel that a spanking is complete without baring the cheeks to some good, sound stinging swats!