I’ve been spanking my husband for a little over a year now. They aren’t fun for him. I make no secret of it to my sisters and my friends. They are curious and fascinated by the idea and want to witness or even participate in future punishments. Is that wise? Or should I keep them private? (I believe Andy, funny another Andy) would enjoy the thought of being spanked by them but actually hate it when it’s really happening. And I know my sisters would love dishing it out.
Torn in Seattle
Your husband is a lucky man. Not only does he have a strict wife who knows how to keep him in line, but it sounds like your sisters and friends are open and adventurous and willing to participate and expand his discipline! Most of my clients would be green with envy. Spankos love to not-like what they’re being subjected to. I agree with you. Hubby will probably feel mortified if you invite other women to witness his punishment. But usually that embarrassment heightens the excitement of a spanking. He may not even admit it, but I would wager he’d find the extra “attention” very exciting and engaging. And yes, he will probably find it far more exciting in the anticipation of it, than in the actual doing of it. The great thing about inviting other people to join in is the element of surprise. Not just the surprise of their presence, but also, during the discipline, Andy has probably gotten rather accustomed to the ways in which you punish him but he will not be able to anticipate what those other will ladies might do. So this will considerably up the ante. I think it’s a great idea and I imagine everyone will benefit from the experience. Only one way to know. I say give it go!