Dear Ms. Marwood,
I use a female trainer at my gym. She is strong and beautiful. I kid that she needs to “whip” me into shape. Sometimes I say things like, “spank me if I don’t do a full set”. I’m usually answered with a smiler maybe even a retort. Should I really ask her to spank me? Is there a right way to do that? I don’t want to come off to pervy. And I don’t want to lose her as a trainer? She has a boyfriend. I’m not looking to date her. I just think she’d be a perfect disciplinarian.
Just because you think she’d make a perfect disciplinarian is NOT a good reason to try and finagle a spanking from your trainer. Enjoy your notions about this in your fantasies. I believe that most women would find it offensive—not flattering–for a male colleague to make such an overture. Unless this person is a friend and you are able to joke about personal things like this you should keep it to yourself. With a friend you could good naturedly say that you think she is a born disciplinarian and you could see yourself taking a spanking from her if you got out of line. You don’t have that kind of relationship.