Dear Ms. Marwood,
Let’s talk pregnancy and spanking. More specifically, is it safe to be spanked during it? I’m in my first trimester so it isn’t a big deal. My husband spanks me often and we want to know if we’ll have to slow down or stop until after the birth? Or can you suggest new positions or techniques to work around the growing belly and sweet child inside?
Thanks. Love the advice.
I am not a doctor and I cannot speak to the safety of spanking play during pregnancy. The only thing I can offer is suggestions for positions where you are not lying on your belly. I’d consult your OBGYN to be certain they are safe. Remember, you have doctor-patient confidentiality. They can’t by law tell anyone what consenting adults do for fun.
Here are a few ideas:
Lying on your side in a modified fetal position; the diaper position, which is on your back with your legs in the air; or standing, with hands bracing against a wall or on the back of a chair for support. Just remember, safety first!